It’s a tough question because we are right to be scared.Sexual etiquette is predicated on a series of arbitrary variables, the greatest being that men know they have power over women and that they must be cautious not to abuse it.So if you ever want a better moment to tell a man what brings you pleasure, it is now ladies.To teach the other half of humanity how to make us tremble with pleasure is part of the feminist fight too.But don't worry, she'll still probably fall for you anyways.The Disabled Love Interest is a (usually temporary) Love Interest, most often Inspirationally Disabled.I guess it’s just hard for some men to commit to a relationship with a handicapped girl.Most of the reasons I have been given for not dating paraplegic girls are based on false beliefs.
With this as our starting point we can begin to have a conversation both as a society at large, and also as individuals on our Tinder dates, on how men can do better when it comes to using their d*ck without being one.How do we women navigate straight sex, or even just plain dating, in the wake of #Me Too?How do we reassert ownership over our sex lives and our sexuality?This expresses itself in a number of ways, from gents respecting our wishes when we openly say “no”, to being aware of whether we are willingly engaging with their sexual advances. Much like when you’re having a pint, you don’t simply throw your beer all over the person you want to have a drink with.This isn’t about men learning how to read the secret signals women give off when they want sex, like how many times they blink or how they’ve twirled their hair.
She'll overcome her challenges in the end, and have a steamy kiss while she's at it. This can be done well, if the love interest isn't played off as Inspirationally Disabled but as a normal person with human thoughts and feelings, and if it offers character growth and maturity.