When talking about it feels uncomfortable that’s usually a sign that you’re not quite ready yet. It’s my opinion that if it’s too awkward to discuss you clearly aren’t ready to have sex quite yet. And mundane things like whether to turn the lights on or off.
By the time we’re single and reentering the dating pool we are ready to have a little fun. I don’t recommend those conversations on the first date, as a rule, but you do want to start discussing sex before the clothes are flying off.
These are practical conversations and personal considerations that will make sex more relaxed and enjoyable.
Men can be just as nervous and uncertain about sex as women.
And while it’s probably not ideal to address the topic bluntly, there still has to be some middle ground that makes both of you comfortable enough to engage in the conversation. This new opportunity for fun, romance and love at this time of our lives is heady and can feel a bit like high school— but we still have to use some adult restraint and common sense.
Good clear communication is essential to a good experience.
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When you’re new to the dating game and haven’t had sex in a while the awkwardness is understandable.
But it’s not very useful or appealing to resort to teenage jokes and play little avoidance games.
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And at the same time he was urgently pressing his desire for sex.