I just restated that I wasn't ready for a commitment just yet, and had to get to know him better first before making that decision.
So my question is, do you think it's disrespectful to date multiple people at once?
And what do you do once someone you are dating wants to be exclusive?
There is nothing wrong with dating more than one person at a time as long as all parties knows this.
You're 21, young and a cute kid go out and meet guys , how else are you going to get experience knowing what you like in a guy. Whenever I go out with someone, they want to be my boyfriend after the first or second date.
Depends on how they see it and how they see and approach relationships in general, and their behavior.I just recently went on a first date with a very charming, decent, kind man, who I definitely am interested in.However, I don't want to move too quickly with him, because I've experienced this "instant attraction" before, and learned that investing too much of myself too soon usually results in me getting hurt terribly.The funny thing is, the guys that are generally actually able to commit aren't really going to date you.Because the one on one thing is basically a commitment someone makes to themselves to not pursue and actively work against meeting other people.