There’s nothing worse than a romantic evening followed by a great night in the hay, which leads to unanswered texts because you couldn’t admit you were only ever looking for a one-off.You might not care, but consider your date’s feelings too.Get rejection right Rejection can be a useful experience because it teaches you a bit about yourself and the guys you’re dating.Rejecting someone because of their appearance is only natural, but they don’t need to know that’s your reason.Sometimes we meet the wrong people, choose a bad venue or fall head over heels with someone who just wants to be friends.While the common dating ‘rules’ – not that I believe in rules – can apply to anybody, there are perhaps a few things we, as gay guys, need to pay a little more attention to.Para ajudar a personalizar conteúdos, adaptar e avaliar anúncios e disponibilizar uma experiência mais segura, usamos cookies.Ao clicares ou ao navegares no site, aceitas a nossa recolha de informações dentro e fora do Facebook através de cookies.
While you’re checking your racism, think about the way you talk to other guys who aren’t just like you.
It’s time to think outside the box, look past the beards or muscles, and take chances.
Be positive Many guys are very clear in their dating profiles – almost rudely so – about what they don’t want or like.
Not only is this far too prescriptive, you also run the risk of coming across as overly negative.
Say what you like to do, who you want to be with, and why people should date you. Don’t fetishise This is becoming a bigger issue in the gay dating world.
Don’t get hung up on tops and bottoms or everything in between Yes, you know what you like, but if you’re looking for a relationship, it’s not just about what goes where and who’ll be standing on their head or whatever.