Occasionally this could mean that they’re not ready for an intimate relationship – on the other hand, they could just be quite modest or shy.While someone’s past has helped form the person they are today, it’s not as important as how they choose to live now.They might have put something in there because they think it sounds impressive but on further questioning it has no substance.
You’ve both taken the step to join e Harmony and will have had some experiences, both good and bad, that you can share with each other.In my first email, I usually ask a few questions and figure the female will answer them, which they usually do, but then they don’t ask anything of me but still seem interested.I may email again, saying, “If you want to know anything just ask”, etc. It’s that you probably haven’t given her a compelling reason to be. “So if a man can make you into a more engaging person by writing a witty first email, wouldn’t it make sense that you could turn a man into a more engaging person by doing the same?When you’ve satisfied yourself that someone is genuine the important question is if they’d like to meet with you.If they’re local suggest a quick coffee date during the day in a public place.
This will often lead to some flattery or a conversation about mutual interests and hobbies.